January has officially begun and I hope you are back in the swing of things. I’m so excited for the year ahead and have never felt more in flow with life than I do right now. I am off to India next month and have started writing my book which has been bursting to get out of me for the past year!

Last week, I wrote about you being the woman who asks for she wants in 2017. I hope you’ve had time to start your list and keep adding to it as desires pop into your mind.

The next question, is whose going to stop you being that woman? And the truth is the only person to stop you, is you!

We are our own worst enemies.

The second rule of the law of attraction is belief. Your belief that what you want is meant for you and you have the power to make it happen.

We store thousand of limiting beliefs in our subconscious mind. Most of these beliefs are stored away by the time we are 7. Pretty scary huh and even scarier is mostly we’re not aware of them. We are too busy being busy to take notice of the 70,000 thoughts we have a day and the stories that we are playing over and over again.

The biggest limiting belief I’ve discovered with successful Women I work with is that they are not enough. Not enough to have the life and business they truly desire. Not enough, to give themselves time to relax and nurture their soul. And not enough to have it all, they must always sacrifice something.

I was shocked when I discovered this belief lurking around in my own shadow. But have you ever struggled with someone telling you how great, clever or beautiful you are? Ask yourself this question, why do you find those compliments difficult to hear or accept?

What beliefs could be holding you back?

I want you to pick one of the most important desires on your list and then journal your thoughts.

Let your pen free flow. and then answer these questions :

What’s my story about this?

What do I think is true?

Is it actually true?

What’s holding me back or stopping me?

What would I like to think instead?

How can I change this story?

The fact is you have to believe it to achieve it, so by unpicking and unpacking the stories you are playing in the background, you have the power to choose a new story to play and new beliefs to accept.

Change the story of – ‘I’m not enough’ and flip it to being ‘I am totally enough for everything I want’ [insert the specific desire].

So don’t stop you now, carry on the party and have a good time as the truth is, only you stop you!

Plus as a little New Year Gift, check out ‘The Happy Lawyer Project’ Podcast below where I was interviewed by the fabulous Okeoma Morunu Schreiner. During the interview we talk about intuition, failure and practising gratitude, so be sure to check it out : https://itun.es/gb/TdAYfb.c